Meeting Older Women in Memphis

Today, I welcome a guest article from a man named JT.  JT owns a website that highlights his own personal COUGARLIFE.COM REVIEWS.  He reflects on his experience with that site and talks about how he uses it to meet older women.

His knowledge led me to invite him to chime in on the topic of meeting older women around Memphis.

Meeting Older Women in Memphis

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Many men nowadays want to get out of their age group for dating purposes and pursue women who are considerably older than they are. The problem arises when they do not know how to meet such women or reel them in well enough. This can result in frustration and disappointment and can basically keep you from trying to approach such women again.

The right tips can get you what you want and also give you valuable experience for the future when you are trying to meet older women.

  • Older women are generally averse to eating or wandering alone. They will prefer to go to bars etc with another woman their own age or rather a whole group of women which belong to the same age group. These groups are found in certain night clubs and bars which makes them easy to spot and target. Choose one which you desire and then read on how to approach her.
  • Dancing is one way to break the ice and also to detach the cougar or older woman from the rest of the group. It might also be the first step in you expressing your interest so make sure you have made up your body, dressed well and also practiced good dancing before you hit the club. Smelling like a real man is also going to help your cause. Even if the woman you like is dancing with someone else you can always be close to her in proximity so you are her next logical choice.
  • You need to come loaded with some money because if there is one thing that women of practically any age swoon over is when a guy buys them expensive cocktails and drinks. Drinks can also be a good prelude for the conversation and will win you some points for being a gentleman. Give the older woman a feeling that she is being courted by someone who knows how to behave around a woman.
  • Older women tend to be experienced in romantic affairs largely due to their age so the traditional fake tactics are not going to work. Show an interest and be genuine as this is the only thing they will respond to. Last but not least don’t forget to be nice to them. Kindness goes a long way in showing your character and lets them view you in a relationship and ultimately makes them more receptive to you.

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5 Tips To Maintain Your Confidence In a Date

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Wanted to go out for a date? Or ask a girl out? Every man has this confidence problem or doesn’t know how to communicate and respond, to make a girl want them. Don’t let that happen to you, make sure you learn some things that others don’t and your goal should make her say yes for your next date.

Here are some tips that will help you maintain your confidence in a date.

  1. Wear comfortable yet decent clothes – at some point, wearing comfortable yet decent clothes will boost your confidence. Guys usually get shy, over reacting, boastful or anything that may ruin their date, which is really a bad sign for girls. Just be yourself and make sure your comfortable with your clothes, so you can focus on her and not to the clothes you wear. At the end of the day, it is not just about the clothes you wear, but it is how you make the night worth it for her.
  2. Learn to handle any situation – if you know how to handle any situation, then you will surely make a girl fall for you. Always remember that girls want a guy who can be their light and shining armor, so be the guy and learn to handle every situation. It would be best if you have experience in dating and show the best thing you got for the last girl you want to date.
  3. Female and man's hands with red heartBe calm in every way – this will help prevent you from feeling nervous or anxiety which usually ruins every guys night. Make sure you keep it calm, simple, gentle and appreciate her all the time. More likely girls will keep up their mood with a guy who knows how to handle the situation and calm in every way. This will also help you express what you want to say about her.
  4. Know how to respond right – the most important thing in dating is that, you know how to respond to any movement like flirting and through words like talk with appreciation. When you provide good response to every situation that you are in, you will be able to continue the conversation and there would be no room for trouble. Every person who is in dating status, should prepare for any possible situation and learn how to respond right. This will make a girl feel that you are serious to her and that you are not just up to get her sexually harassed at the end of the night. Be cool, relax and respond right. In this way, you can be confident throughout the night because you know that you are on your safe mode.
  5. Enhance your confidence by socializing or making friends – you can always try to socialize and learn skills in communicating. In this way, you will be able to learn two different things. First is communicating and responding to the conversation. Second, is to feel comfortable talking to different kind of personalities and be able to understand how to respond to their attitude.

If this would be your first date, then you should practice communicating and socializing a lot more to keep up your confidence. So by the time you date with your favorite girl, you will know how to communicate and be able to say what you really want to say to her. It is just a matter of knowing how to communicate and if you will be able to apply that in your date? Then there is no doubt that you can make a girl smile no matter what situation comes in.